Creo que me he perdido algunas partes ( lo que no me ha impedido dormir) pero lo que está claro es que las dinámicas negativas son eso: negativas. Para todos. En menor o mayor medida, para todos. Pues contaminan y embarran el debate y matan la diversión.

Igual tendriamos que hacer un cursillo de Net-etiqueta...

1.  Begin with a salutation 
2. Review what you wrote and try to interpret it objectively. When we speak face to face and are misunderstood, we have an on-the-spot opportunity to rephrase our words. In writing, we must strive twice as hard to be understood, as we do not have the benefit of modifying or elaborating in real time. All caps (“I’M SHOUTING”) and exclamation points (“Give me a break!!!”) can be misinterpreted as intense anger or humor without the appropriate context.
3. If you wouldn’t say it face to face, don’t say it online. When you’re working online, you’re safe behind a screen, but that’s no excuse to be ill-mannered or say things you would never say in public.
4. Don’t assume everyone understands where you’re coming from. Sarcasm and wit is often the spice of in-person conversation, but in online discussion, it can not only lose its edge, it can bite!  With this in mind, review what you wrote before contributing to the conversation and ask yourself, “Will everyone get the joke?”
5. Don’t spam. Please don’t take advantage of your connection with the others to forward emails and links regarding your political/spiritual beliefs.
6. Use emoticons. In casual chatroom settings, emoticons can help convey feelings that may otherwise get lost in translation, including humor, exasperation, exhaustion and even confusion.
7. Respect others’ privacy.
8. Remember, if it’s on the internet, it’s everywhere. Don’t share personal information about yourself in a public online forum, especially something that could put your safety or security at risk.
9. Follow the rules. Online forums also have rules of conduct. Make a point to read them.
10. Forgive and forget. If you’re offended by something someone says online, keep in mind that you may have misunderstood his/her intentions. Give them the benefit of the doubt.